His name is Spervy, but we all call him 'Spervert'
Posted on 08/02/2006 by Eew! SEXUALLY HERASSED, MUCH???
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UGH! My boss is so gross. He's 38, and such a sexist pig like you will never believe. I'm 15, and working with my two best friends, Abby and Corinne who are 16. The first day of work, I walked into our break room, and they were watching PORN in there. Then a little later, the guy actually came over and started playing with my bra strap, commenting on it's color and saying that it wasn't allowed to show, (Pshhyeah right, and like that gives him latitude to TOUCH me) then just a few days ago I'm getting my lunch from our break room and he turns to me and goes; "I had a sex dream about Abby last night. Actually, all three of you were in it. You were all having an orgy.....Abby has really big boobs...." @.@ EEEEEWWWWWW!!!! He's so gross! I was in ELEMENTARY school when this guy was 33! Eeew eew eew.
POST A COMMENTDharmadee(08/02/2006)
Are there witnesses to this? PLEASE pay attention, and handle this as the criminal behavior that it is. Sit down and write up a statement, and get any witnesses you might have to sign it. If no one will sign it, or there are no witnesses, go to a Notary and have them witness your signature, that this is a true statement of events that you would be willing to tetify to in a court of law. THEN, contact this clown's boss, and the Human Resource Department. Don't let them rattle you. Tell them that you have spoken to adults who have advised you to take this step before further action is considered. Make sure to have witnesses, and document the results of the conversation with another notarized statement. NOW, you have grounds for a lawsuit, if they do not take steps immediately to protect you. I am so sorry that this was your introduction to the adult workplace. However, if you handle this correctly, it will be a good learning experience, and a test of your courage. Believe me, you will need it. Good luck.
avid reader(08/03/2006)
WHAT A JERK! This makes me so mad to read. I am dumbfounded that this jerk had the audacity to speak to you this way. Tell your parents immediately. If I had a daughter, I would want to know if some scumbag was talking to her like this. You should never have to stand for treatment like this. You deserve to be respected. I am outraged.
the confessor(08/04/2006)
TELL YOUR PARENTS AND HAVE THE POLICE CALLED TO ARREST HIM NOW... HE IS JUST ONE SMALL STEP AWAY FROM SEXUALLY ASSAULTING YOU. HE TAKES YOUR RELUCTANCE TO TURN HIM IN AS APPROVAL FOR HIS SICK "ADVANCES"...SEND HIM TO A PLACE WHERE HE CAN REALLY MEET SOME PERVERTS!!!
AnneL(08/04/2006)
Tell your parents AND report this to your Department of Labor.
BoneyardDiva(08/05/2006)
Please tell someone! Everyone else is trying to make this point. The longer you keep quiet, the longer this bozo has to make his move. He wants to see how far he can push you before you run or push back. Let someone know & they can further advise you how to handle the situation. This guy is an out-and-out pervert for sure. Please tell someone!
BeenthereDonethat!(08/06/2006)
Tell anyone...even if it is a school counselor. They are at work by now, so you can just show up at your high school and ask to speak with someone. It doesn't matter who you talk to- a favorite teacher, a coach, the nurse, the counselor, anyone. They all have the ability to mediate and get you out of that situation. If you have school resource officers, they'd be the best ones to talk to. Get your friends to collaborate your story. Go talk to someone together. Just make sure you report the prick!
HaveADamnNiceDay(08/08/2006)
Oh my dear LORD, girl, I have worked for a similar pig! I worked in a shoe store that was liquidating, and I was vacuuming up some of the mess, and he looked at me and said, "Any chance you can come to my apartment and do that in a G-string?" He joked at it, but I could tell he was still half-serious. EEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!! The look I gave him was enough to tell him he'd better not ever say anything like that to me again. Definitely report him!!! Go to your regional manager or something! You are in danger! I agree with everyone! Get out of there! He is going to interpret your lack of protest as permission to keep touching you and to keep being a creep! ....Effin' pervert!
Loves 2 Run (08/02/2006)
Hey listen up darling. I have kids your age. You are in danger of an assault. Tell someone. Tell your parents or if the firm is big enough, tell HR or an older female employee. You have already been "assaulted" (he touched your bra strap!) F'n pig. You are young and vulnerable. Never go anywhere into a room or an office or lunch alone with this guy. Tell someone today! No amount of summer money is worth being around such scum. Call his wife... Ohhh I get so ticked off with this stuff. Maybe I'll come over and have a chat... Nah... Good Luck!
get help (08/02/2006)
yeah defanitly get help. your work should have a sexually harassment line. you should report him. he is such a pig. it is illegal for him to be doing this stuff!! make sure your not alone with this guy!
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