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avid reader(10/26/2006)
I carry a Sudoku book in purse for those down times. I don't know that it's exactly to distract myself, but you're right, I do find myself uncomfortable when I'm bored like in a line like you said. I could make better use of the time than burying my head in a puzzle book. My reasoning is that it keeps my mind sharp!
Victoria(10/26/2006)
I carry a small spiritual tome - a sort of mini-purse-size spiritual bon-bon to "re-focus" myself on what is important. Hmmm. Seems I'm still trying to be a busy little martinet, even if it's under the guise of a spiritual break for prayer/meditation. - I am noticing though, more and more, as I get older, that it's grand just to sit and zone out. To be quiet and care and THINK about nothing. Just be. Like a kid. It's really wonderful.
sheila(10/26/2006)
I like this idea of carrying something with you to refocus yourself or a reminder to be mindful. I think that's a great idea! I too am guilty of being restless and feel very much like I would rather be distracted than think. I find that I turn the tv on in the background even when I do not need to. I read something somewhere that suggested driving with the radio off. Not an easy thing to do. Harder than I ever thought it would be. But I'll tell you, I tried it and learned my brakes were starting to go! I wouldn't have heard the noise before because I drive with the volume up!
Victoria(10/26/2006)
Sheila: That is too cute about about your brakes! - For myself, I am such a bird-brain that I can ONLY drive with the radio off; no cell-phone, and frankly, very little conversation, and ONLY if no one requires I turn my head to chat with eye-to-eye contact. -BUT, I have a perfect driving record, and STILL there are the "distractions of the mind." - In fact, it's not depressed thought matter, or anger over some issues, whatever but HAPPINESS that is the most distracting thematic brain directive while behind the wheel! Happy Driving! Victoria
twiz(10/27/2006)
Great post! I realized I am a victim of this as well... Constantly checking mail.... Even taking my laptop to the bathroom! (I know... I have a problem). I'm going to try and start taking more non-wired time... Go for more walks.... Lay in a hammock. Ride my bike.... And not take my phone with me! =)
Marita(10/28/2006)
Ever tried meditation; i.e., concentrating on your fingertips touching and watching your thoughts pass by like clouds. Totally detaching from your thoughts to allow something really remarkable to happen. It's refreshing and exilirating.
Dharmadee(10/30/2006)
Thank you, Marita! That is a great suggstion, and one that I use myself at times.
Jon(11/02/2006)
Does anyone else find it ironic that we are badmouthing overuse of technology ON THE INTERNET! Or that one suggestion in response to using a gameboy instead of thinking is to meditate ("totally deatching from your thoughts"). Most people see meditation as emptying the mind of conscious thought (i.e. not thinking) or relecting on a single thought. The add suggested using the gameboy to solve a logical problem WHICH REQUIRES THOUGHT! I don't really see anything wrong with whipping out the Nintendo while sitting idle in a waiting room, especially since they make a point of suggesting working on a sudoku (an activity that requires thought rather than discouraging it). I wouldn't have a problem with someone pulling out the Blackberry to e-mail mom, the wife, or even just sending a fart joke to an old buddy to share a laugh. And I for one find listening to light music or an interview on NPR a great way to turn a stressful 90mph bumper to bumper rolling road block into a much more relaxing adventure that prepares me for spending a peaceful evening with my family, rather than bringing the stress of the office and commute through my front door. Are there other things one could do in a line or waiting room to be more connected with the world around them? Certainly. Perhaps the two characters portrayed as drab and listless in the add should try striking up a conversation with each other. When was the last time you smiled at the person behind you in a line and gave them a friendly hello? It makes the time go more pleasantly, if not a bit faster.
Marita(11/02/2006)
Well, Jon, don't kick meditation if you haven't tried it. We have thousands of thoughts each day and wouldn't it be nice to detach from them for say, 15 minutes. Out of the quiet and dark comes greatness. Would you dispute Beethovan?
Jon(11/03/2006)
I am not kicking meditation. I enjoy meditating. I am just saying that it is hypocritical to suggest meditation to separate ourselves from our thoughts after knocking Nintendo for suggesting we use their latest product to separate ourselves from our thoughts. Perhaps some people find playing golf on their gameboy to be as theraputic and relaxing as others find meditation. There are thousands of ways to relaxation, and whether it is playing video games, meditating, kickboxing or rebuilding a classic car, we should not put down any of them, nor should we put down Nintendo for trying to sell a product and make a buck.
avid reader(11/03/2006)
Who's knocking Nintendo? The article says >These ads are just addressing and perpetuating a market that's already established.< That doesn't sound like blaming to me. I understand what you're saying, Jon but I think you're missing the point. The point isn't that we should not reax how we want to relax. The point is that we should take time to think. The author is suggesting that those nothing times could be better spent doing NOTHING and thinking for once. I wholeheartedly agree with you that the two drab people could have a conversation with each other. But if you're burying your head in a device, that will never have a chance of happening. So I think you might agree with that?
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