Posted on 09/09/2006 by Animalcars1
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I am a teacher's aide and have been for 5 yrs. We got a new PE teacher this year and he has never taught before. He never asked any questions on how things work around our school. He has to do things HIS way and that is that. He has been told by the principal to do things certain ways and has already had several complaints against him on the way he treats the children (11&12yrs.old). Yesterday my 18 yr. old son came by the gym to get my car keys and a song was playing so the kids could dance and my son said that the song that was being played was not a clean song and I said that I was sure that the coach had bleeped them out and then my son said but I heard two words and that song is very incenuating about sex and that you know these kids know what it means. So I nicely said to the coach that my son heard two ugly words and maybe we should change the song so we won't get in trouble with any parents. The coach proceded to tell me rather SCREAM at me that the song WAS clean and he knew and so on. Then I said ok fine. I walked across the gym to two other teachers that were standing there and he then followed me over there, got right in my face and began SCREAMING at me again about the song and I said softly as kids were standing with in 2 ft. of us, "coach, please do not talk to me like that in front of these kids" He then proceded, right in my face with all the kids watching to SCREAM at me again that he was sick and tired of me telling him what to do in HIS gym. At first we thought he was just joking and he walked away and half way across the gym he turned and SCREAMED at me again and said my son was never to come in HIS gym again. All the kids and teachers just froze. One of the teachers said he was not kidding and so since I was so upset at his behavior to me I got my 3 spec. ed children and left the gym and got a another teacher to stay in there. About 10 min. later it was time for the buses to load and he was no where around, he had left the gym and when the bell rang and the other teacher left, as she had her afternoon duty, so one of the kids came to me outside while I was loading my spec. ed. kid on the bus and told me that no one was in the gym to let them get on the bus, there was a teacher standing next to me so she went in and started to release the kids to get on the bus as the bus drivers were asking where they were and he came back in the gym and starting screaming at her about she had no business letting those kids out of the gym that ONLY HE is to dismiss the kids from HIS GYM. She told him that the buses were waiting and he was not in the gym and we were suppose to release them as that is our policy and not hold up the buses. After all students were gone and I asked him what was wrong with him, very nicely. He said that he was tired of me telling him what to do and yes he should not have done that but he was not going to have me tell him what to do in HIS gym. I told him that I was not telling him what to do nor have I ever told him what to do. I have made suggestions nicely and that I was only trying to cover his butt so he would not get in trouble. I told him I know these parents and they will complain if you even blink wrong. He still said I was wrong about the song and that I was not to tell him what to do and I again said I was not TELLING him just suggesting and he said that was not true and that it was coming across also as if I am TELLING him what to to. I said well OK and left. I was extremely upset about how I was treated. I have never been treated like that in my life. I am 53 yrs old and have worked since I was 15 and never had a problem or been treated like the coach treated me. He does scream at the kids in gym and single them out and gets right in their faces. He has already had some complaints and I have had parents call me about him, which I just tell them they need to call the principal. Then the secretary and I left the school after I had calmed down and he followed our secretary home and drove around her circle about 8 times and then parked down the street and just watched her house for 10 min. She called me and my husband and her husband said to call the police. She and her husband waited a few more min. and he drove off. Then her husband left for work and she called me and said a dark blue SUV keeps driving around her circle. She asked me didn't his wife have a car like that and I said yes. She could not see in the windows but she felt like it was him because of the car. Finally after doing that 4 or 5 more times he quit and she left for the ballgame. Our principal is gone for the next 3 days and I will inform her of the situation when she returns but I also want to file a formal complaint to be put in his record about this. How should I do that, with a form or just write a letter. Thanks
blola (09/09/2006)
Outrageous! Please, lodge your formal complaints against this person before he hurts someone.
Kristie (09/10/2006)
I have a feeling that this issue will take care of itself. Once the Principal finds out, he is pretty much toast. However, my concern is about your safety. This guy sounds like a real nut case. I am afraid that once he is taken care of he will look for someone to vent his anger on and most likely it will be you. Along with your formal complaint I would contact the police and find out what actions you can take to protect yourself. One of which, I am sure, will be a restraining order.
C - - (09/10/2006)
While you are at it, (reporting to the police) ask them if your community or state has stalker laws with real consequences.------ Check also if you can move in with a relative or friend just in case you have to, that way you will be protected if this nut overreacts again.
thelma (09/11/2006)
Take a camera with a time/date stamp on it. If he follows you or parks in front of/near your house, take a picture of him. Get the license plate of any suspicious vehicles. Document everything.
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