By canary
I fall in love with my new boss but he's really mean to me. He start out as friendly and gradually to barking commands every time I utter two words. He's an open-nature type of person but with me he is well-guarded. I know it is conflict of interest but I can't help it. I naturally brighten up and smile when he passes by and when I look into his eyes, everything just stop. You know when you look at somebody and you instinctly say this is the one that I want to marry. How do I make him like me?
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By Are you serious?:You can't make someone like you. Is your boss married or otherwise taken? If so then move on and get over it (yes, you will).
Even if he isn't find another job and move on as your "crush" coudl be considered sexual harassment which is something you don't want on your file... and it could make him uncomfortable.
By computer illiterate:Ok...Its a crush..don't let it crush you. Clearly if he is mean to u why even pursue it. Plus he is your boss! He is probably married or taken or gay..lol Just do your job and if you ever find yourself day-dreaming snap out of it.
By SouthernProgrammer:Canary - I hope I don't sound mean when I suggest you get counseling. You may have a fixation problem which could be damaging in the long run to yourself and others. Leave the boss alone and stick to your work and get help.
By JB sucks:I re-read your story carefully. could it be that he feels the same way about you but doesn't want to for whatever reason so that is why he is acting how he is?
By dontask 0:Don't encourage her, JB!
He is holding her desperately at arms length, lets keep it that way. If she can't cool it, its time to look for another job outside the company. If he finds an excuse to visit she will have her answer. If he doesn't (and that it most likely) then there was no future in the first place.
By HaveADamnNiceDay:Please get out of there or just ignore him. Don't try to make friends, don't waste your energy. You're there to earn a paycheck, remember?
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